Refocusing

For some time now I’ve been feeling like I’ve been busy all the time and working hard but not really getting anywhere. Yesterday, Rachel and I took a much-needed break from our typical rushing around and just slept in and hung around the house. Unlike some other times when we each do our own thing, we made a special effort to spend this time with each other, watching True Blood episodes until we started talking in southern accents.

That evening we had reservations at Pazo in Baltimore, the restaurant I went to for my bachelor party that I have been meaning to take Rachel to for some time. As expected, the food and atmosphere was wonderful.  I enjoy upscale restaurants when I can afford them because in addition to expertly prepared food, the staff provides quality service. I’m no connoisseur, so perhaps my referring to Pazo as “upscale” reveals my plebeian existence. Still, I think it’s a nice place, and I’m definitely somebody who is willing to pay for good service.

It was on the drive home, talking to Rachel about our day, that I had a transformative moment. Spending a day just hanging out and enjoying the company of my wife helped me to refocus my outlook and remember that I already have everything I ever wanted. The rest is part of the adventure.